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Q & A: The Thrower

Question: Jack has just passed one and a half, will be two in early May. He is starting to throw things around the house for fun and sometimes when he is upset or angry, he throws things. Like once when he wanted to open the door to the house with the key but I had to do it because he couldn’t he cried and then proceeded to pull every single shoe off our shoe rack and throw them to the ground. It seems to give him some satisfaction, but I worry about the aggression. Last night my partner stopped him pouring…

Pretext and the Big Metal Pole

I was recently at a parenting workshop with Dr Larry Cohen (more on that amazing experience when I feel like my feet have come back to touch the ground) and a story came to me. When I was around 15 I was babysitting for two kids I had never met and the little boy who must have been around 6 started chasing me with a huge metal pole. I have no idea how I diffused the situation but I remember as I was putting him to bed (I didn’t run out screaming, apparently) he suddenly burst into tears and said…